FIFO & REMOTE-WORK STRESS
FIFO life: managing the mental load of rotation
By Bridie McDougall, Registered Psychologist
Most of us grew up picturing ADHD as a hyperactive kid who couldn't sit still. So FIFO can be a great financial decision and a heavy emotional one at the same time. The money's real, but so is the toll of rosters, distance, and living two lives that never quite line up. If you or your partner are finding it harder than you let on, you're in very good company.
The switch that never feels clean
Site-you and home-you can feel like different people. On swing, you shut things down to cope. At home, everyone wants that shut-down part of you back online now, and the transition can leave you irritable, flat, or oddly like a visitor in your own house.
The stuff people don't say out loud
Guilt about being away, and guilt about secretly enjoying the quiet.
Feeling out of step with the household routine when you return.
Loneliness on swing that's hard to admit to the crew.
Sleep permanently scrambled by shift patterns.
Partners carrying the home load and feeling unseen.
A few things that help
Small, deliberate rituals for landing and leaving. Protecting sleep like it's part of the job. Naming the transition out loud with your partner instead of white-knuckling it. And having somewhere outside the relationship to offload, which is where sessions that fit around a roster can genuinely help.
Carrying more than you let on?
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